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Q. I seem to have hit a recent dry-spell with women. Every woman I keep running into is already “involved” with someone else, have messed up lives, or something is mentally wrong with them! For a while I’ll have plenty of women to choose from, then all of a sudden, the well runs dry! The old ones start boring me, and the new ones are basically fucked up! Is this common?

Is it really a numbers game like they say? I’d like to get back on the right track as quick as possible!

Thanks Doc!

A. Hello,

This is actually quite common. You’re going to have the feast/famine scenario pretty regularly, but that’s not a bad thing – if you make use of the feast side of things and plan for the famine.

The trick is to gather numbers when the gettin’ is good, and to harvest those numbers when things get slim. Remember that you want to space things out a little bit so that you’re not calling women back before a week anyway. If you play things right, you can actually make contact with them and put them back another 2 weeks, make contact again, etc. You can only do this about 3-4 times before she’s going to go crazy wondering if you’re ever going to actually meet her however!

Further, yes – you’re going to find that many women you meet are either crazy, demanding, game-playing, claim to already be hooked up, (even though they just spent the last 40 minutes flirting with you), or just down-right bitches! This is just the rule of the game. You won’t know these things until after you call them back, so be ready. These are the hazards…

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Q. I have the hots for this girl I’ve known for about a year. We have spent time together and I know she feels the same.

My problem is, I’m separated from my wife and it’s putting her off. I need to know how to make her jealous without making it obvious and also how to eventually win her heart.

Maybe she feels I’m not to be trusted cause I’ve cheated on girls before. I know she feels the same but I don’t want to make a fool of myself. Thanks…

A. Hello,

Well, you could get back with the ex and have the best sex of your life – that’d make her jealous! No, I think there’s a better way.

I think you really want to do two things:

1) Make her jealous; and,

2) Change her mind about you, your ex and your past.

If you just go out and start banging a bunch of women and make it obvious, she’s going to think you’re a player, which will just put her off even further.

On the other hand, if you just seem to be busy – and aren’t around when she calls or wants to talk, her feminine mind will start working and you’ll have the power you’re looking for. So, do this:

1) Be scarce. Don’t answer the phone, and take at least a few days to call her back.

2) Never answer the phone, or make return calls to her on the weekends – after all, you’re busy, right?

3) Always cut any conversation with her short by saying, “Oh, sorry – I have to run. I’ll call you later… bye.” [click!]

4) Talk about the great time you had with a “friend” the other night. Don’t specify the sex of this “friend”.

5) When you are out with her, have fun! Make your time with her something to remember – but don’t hesitate to flirt a little with other women too. Bring them in and make the part of the party!

Finally, for God’s sake – don’t talk about your wife with this woman other than to say how much you’re over her! Every time you bring her up in a positive vein, you’re just confirming her greatest fear – that she’s still in the picture. No woman wants to have to compete with that!

[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]

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