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Derek Rake claims he has “The Secret Formula of How To Naturally Get Any Woman To Develop Romantic And Wild Sexual Attraction To Any Man… And It Works On Every Woman On The Planet – No Matter How You Look, How Old You Are, Or How Much Money You Have.”

Not the most uncommon claim for seduction gurus who tout their techniques. He goes on to claim that he has “The First Real Breakthrough In Seduction Technology In The Last 5 ½ Years…”

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“How To Smoothly Meet, Seduce & Get ANY Woman You Want… Guaranteed ZERO Rejection” is the offer Dean Cortez and Simon Heong make with their product “Bulletproof Seduction“.

Bulletproof Seduction is a step-by-step plan on how to walk up to any woman, get her number or email and have her very eager to contact you on the following day. Dean and Simon teach the magic words that get women “interested and do ALL the talking” as well as how to handle any objections such as “why are you talking to us”, “don’t you have anyone else here to talk to”, “I’m not interested”, etc. They also “reveal the exact steps and strategies that shows how you can smoothly approach, meet & spark instant chemistry with any woman you want” and fast. You’ll learn how to “spark a desire so intense to the point where she cannot stop thinking about you”.

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Let’s get one thing straight right out of the gate: Regardless of the title of thisarticle, as a female in my mid-20s, I do not want to be referred to as a “girl.” Girlswear training bras, don’t pay their own cell phone bills and steal alcohol from theirparents. I am not a girl and I don’t want to be treated like one under any circumstance,especially when it comes to the complicated realm of flirting. You can call us girls amongyourselves all you want, but please think of us as women.Now that we’ve taken care of that detail, let’s move on to the fundamentalsof picking usup.

Seriously, Make The First Move

In a world where women expect men to be lacking in the masculinity department, making thefirst move is a huge turn-on. In the last few years there have been two successful bookspublished about the declining “masculinity” in the modern-day man. Both Manning Up:How the Rise of Women Has Turned Men into Boys by Kay Hymowitz and The Making ofModern Immaturity by Gary Cross theorize that in the postindustrial economy typicallyfeminized traits have been favored in business and education, keeping women on top assuccessors to what used to be considered male-dominated fields. Hymowitz claims that thischange has left men stranded in a place of “pre-adulthood” where they never butterfly intomasculine men. Most women expect that if they want something done, they have to do itthemselves. Sometimes it’s a pleasant surprise to have this reversed. In fact, go aheadand do whatever you can to prove the researchers wrong.
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Know Your Audience

That being said, there is a time and a place for everything, including making the firstmove. I remember a few years back I was working as a brunch server at a small restaurantin my neighborhood. One morning, a guy I knew and his current girlfriend came in forbrunch. As I served them their pancakes and bacon, the guy decided this was the time toproposition a threesome between myself, him and his girlfriend. At brunch. While I wasworking a busy brunch shift. At 11 a.m. At a bogus serving job. Know your audience, dudes.This may be a big fat “duh” to most of you, but some just don’t listen to that “duh” intheir head even if it’s batting hard between the ears. If we’re serving you coffee duringrush hour, chances are we don’t want you to drop some pickupline. Know where you are and what is appropriate.

Do Your Research

Before you go to a job interview, one would think you would do a bit of research on theposition at hand before you head to the gig, right? Right. Now, I’m not saying that tryingto pick up a woman is like a job interview (as Jerry Seinfeld once noted), but I am sayingthat you can’t just dive in head first without doing your research. That is just commonsense. Whether your pick up gig is aimed at a casual hook-up or something a bit moreserious, it is well worth it to take the time to do your research. If you are in a bar orclub and see a woman you are interested in, take some time to study her. Do not gawk orstare like a total creep, but glance over casually and take in what you can. Watch how she interacts with her friends and what kind of vibe she is giving off to theroom with her body language. Is she completely engaged with her group or are her eyeswandering around the room for another possible interaction? Does she seem excited orirritated? Does she seem coherent or two sheets to the wind? Taking the time to figure outwhere she’s at in her night will factor into the way you can approach her, if youshould approach her at all — and it may even predict your success rate. A woman who islaughing insanely with her pals, deep in conversation, is probably not interested intalking with you right now. Wait. On the other hand, a woman who is scoping the room mightbe looking for interaction. If she catches your eye… Ace in the hole. When she goes tothe bar for another drink, maybe you might need to top up, too.

Real Talk

The last thing anyone wants (gay, straight, male, or female) is someone feeding thembogus lines. I know that TheGame taught you how to use “peacocking” and “negging” to have women fall for you,but what women really want is for you to be real. Be yourself. I know, I know. I soundlike your mother, but this advice is golden. If you put on a huge front, she’s going tosee through it. Bring up topics you are familiar with, see if she’s into it. Ask herquestions about herself. Engage. These are basic rules of conversation, but sometimes weforgot about them when “flirting” gets involved.

The Marc Jacobs Rule

Above all these rules is the golden rule of fashion that also applies well to trying to pickup a woman. Designer Marc Jacobs once said, “A cool bag on a dumb girl is a dumb bag, anda dumb bag on a cool girl is a cool bag.”Break it down and what the genius offabric is trying to say is that it doesn’t depend so much on the outside as it does onwhat projects from within. In the world of dating, it comes down to smell. Some peoplejust smell right, feel right, even from the get-go. You can learn all the rules of thegame, but if you lack confidence in yourself and the woman you’re after doesn’tbelieve in what confidence you do have, it’s not going to last past a few rounds. A coolbag only gets you so far. So you can memorize all the lines you want, learn all theso-called rules and even master all the expert advice out there, but if the shoe doesn’tfit, it’s going to fly off to find the cool bag it fits with. Get me?
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Q. I seem to have hit a recent dry-spell with women. Every woman I keep running into is already “involved” with someone else, have messed up lives, or something is mentally wrong with them! For a while I’ll have plenty of women to choose from, then all of a sudden, the well runs dry! The old ones start boring me, and the new ones are basically fucked up! Is this common?

Is it really a numbers game like they say? I’d like to get back on the right track as quick as possible!

Thanks Doc!

A. Hello,

This is actually quite common. You’re going to have the feast/famine scenario pretty regularly, but that’s not a bad thing – if you make use of the feast side of things and plan for the famine.

The trick is to gather numbers when the gettin’ is good, and to harvest those numbers when things get slim. Remember that you want to space things out a little bit so that you’re not calling women back before a week anyway. If you play things right, you can actually make contact with them and put them back another 2 weeks, make contact again, etc. You can only do this about 3-4 times before she’s going to go crazy wondering if you’re ever going to actually meet her however!

Further, yes – you’re going to find that many women you meet are either crazy, demanding, game-playing, claim to already be hooked up, (even though they just spent the last 40 minutes flirting with you), or just down-right bitches! This is just the rule of the game. You won’t know these things until after you call them back, so be ready. These are the hazards…

[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]

Q. I have the hots for this girl I’ve known for about a year. We have spent time together and I know she feels the same.

My problem is, I’m separated from my wife and it’s putting her off. I need to know how to make her jealous without making it obvious and also how to eventually win her heart.

Maybe she feels I’m not to be trusted cause I’ve cheated on girls before. I know she feels the same but I don’t want to make a fool of myself. Thanks…

A. Hello,

Well, you could get back with the ex and have the best sex of your life – that’d make her jealous! No, I think there’s a better way.

I think you really want to do two things:

1) Make her jealous; and,

2) Change her mind about you, your ex and your past.

If you just go out and start banging a bunch of women and make it obvious, she’s going to think you’re a player, which will just put her off even further.

On the other hand, if you just seem to be busy – and aren’t around when she calls or wants to talk, her feminine mind will start working and you’ll have the power you’re looking for. So, do this:

1) Be scarce. Don’t answer the phone, and take at least a few days to call her back.

2) Never answer the phone, or make return calls to her on the weekends – after all, you’re busy, right?

3) Always cut any conversation with her short by saying, “Oh, sorry – I have to run. I’ll call you later… bye.” [click!]

4) Talk about the great time you had with a “friend” the other night. Don’t specify the sex of this “friend”.

5) When you are out with her, have fun! Make your time with her something to remember – but don’t hesitate to flirt a little with other women too. Bring them in and make the part of the party!

Finally, for God’s sake – don’t talk about your wife with this woman other than to say how much you’re over her! Every time you bring her up in a positive vein, you’re just confirming her greatest fear – that she’s still in the picture. No woman wants to have to compete with that!

[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]